Halloween

Halloween seems like decades ago... We had so much fun getting ready for fall and Maddy was really into trick or treating this year, but sad news the morning after, has made this week seem like years.

Dr. Madelyn & Nurse Mia went trick or treating with Mom & Grandma and our neighbor Kylie and her mom, while Dad & Grandpa passed out candy and got the fire pit ready. Last year we only were out about 40 minutes before calling it a night. This year, houses were running out of candy at 7:30 as we made it back to the house. We came back and had yummy smores, they were sooo good !! We had to shower when we got in, because we stunk of smoke.

Little did I know that at the same time as our Halloween festivities, my close cousin Michael, was spending the last few minutes of his life. He was found dead at 8:40 PM in his apartment in NY. Toxicology results won't be in for another month, but they are thinking it could have been a reaction of medicines he took or a heart attack (brought on by a medication he was on). My sisters and I loaded in the car Sunday for a five hour visitation on Monday, Mass on Tuesday and left at 9PM Tuesday night, arriving home around 7 AM. Just enough time for me to sleep 3 hours and get to work around 11 to get everything done for the end of the month & our business unit presentation. Talk about an exhausting week and a tough time for the Gulla family.

Michael was the tough man, he was invincible. He fulfilled his lifelong dream of becoming a cop (despite many people along the way telling him he never would). He was the cousin closest in age to me and we loved each other like siblings, which meant we had our share of fights, but we really understood each other. While we did not get to see each other but once a year or so, we shared many fun times together. Vacations at Old Forge, Tupper Lake, & Watts Bar Lake. But whenever we would talk to each other it was like we had just spoken last week, not last year. We both stood up to the smokers in the family to not smoke in our faces. We both had kiddos in 2004 and David looks like Michael and Maddy is my twin. Mike made us all laugh, sometimes we were the butt of his jokes and sometimes he was laughing at himself. But most of all, Mike cared about people. He loved his family, his country, his music, his life. He lived life the way it was meant to be lived.

It is so surreal that Mike is gone from this Earth. Rome, NY will never be the same without Mike. It is a comfort to know that Mike is in heaven and no longer suffering from his pain on Earth. The priest let us know that instead he was causing pains/resting the peacefulness of those who went before him. I look forward to seeing Mike again in heaven, but will wait for God's time to decide when. We are certainly not promised tomorrow, so love today like there is no tomorrow. I miss you Mike !!


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